When we fall in love we give ourselves over to the charms of our sweetheart, and surrender ourselves to the mysteries of union. That is when everything changes. Through each nuance of behavior, whether a kiss, a conversation, the income taxes, or making love, you are asked to take account of your sweetheart, but also of your relationship. That’s because when you fall in love, there’s another spiritual entity its the “we,” “us” that is brought into being. Although it’s invisible, it is utterly alive, vibrant, vivid, and unique; continuously present as a discrete though subtle energetic essence.
You can feel it when you’re alone together as the mysterious unified play of your two energies. You can recognize it when you present yourselves to the world, as arm in arm you enter a room and create a wave of response. It’s the constellation of ideas and points of view that as a pair, you embody, the joy that, as a couple, you bring to all those around you. It is neither the sum of both nor a negation of either of you. It is neither the sum of you both nor a negation of either of you. It is the mystical interaction by which an additional identity is created, where one plus one equals three not two.
It is the entity relationship, the embodiment of opposites attracting, then uniting; strangers gathered at the same hearth; lovers, together, under the stars, bidding good night to the day that we acknowledging when we speak of ourselves as a “couple,” “Mr and Mrs.” “my sweetheart and I,” It meant so much to us to go to Paris .” We had a wonderful time at the party last night.” And this entity, like the individuals in it, must also be nourished. When you honor your relationship by speaking adoringly of it to others, by treating your sexual relationship as a sacred bond, by standing fast together in time of turmoil and sorrow, you strengthen the power of your union. You nourish the “we” as the precious being it is.Celebrate the unique, unrepeatable identity it has, and reweave the blanket of love that will warm and protect your union always.
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